Wednesday, November 4, 2009

The things you do for love

Hello people, well tonight we are going to discuss things people do for love and when "in love". Let's claify that there is definetely a difference between loving someone and being "in love" with someone.

To be "in love" is an unconditional love. The deep heart filled love that travels so deep into your heart that you would take a bullet for that someone. You would do anything for that person you are "in love with"

To "love" someone is to have a feeling of safeness with that special person. Unfortunetely it is NOT unconditional, rather it has restrictions and conditions.

Now to the meat and potatoes of this blog, what people do for love! Well poeple give up friends, family, and aquaintances. People have been known to cause physical injury up to death on another person for their love. they are "in love" with. People have comitted crimes of all sorts. Now for the other romantic side, people buy flowers, take trips, buy gifts, get married, get loans together ect....you got the drift.

Love is a strong emotion that should never be taken for granted, In love is even a worse emotion where people will do anything for the one they are "in love" with.....this can be dangerous and alot of men stay clear of ever being "in love". I am not stereo typing one gender and will just say that one partner can have a controlling effect over the other partner when in the "in love" stage. Beware of the "in love" and assure that it is truely the right person whom will not take advantage of your emotions and use as their motivation.

In love can be a beautiful expierence if not taken advantage of.........When two people are truely "in love" with one another they can live a long term healthy relationship or marriage.

Well I hope this blog was helpful to people out there reading this blog, use caution when it comes to "love" and "in love". Remember there are so many other factors to also look at such as, jealousy,phychological status, stability, long term goals, family background, substance abuse, alcoholism, demeanor, honesty, trustworthiness, and integrity.

People choose wisely, it could be your future at stake!!!!!!

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